1. Willingness
If you are going to do something different in your life, you should be first willing to do it. Meaning, you wanna do it. No one told you to do it so.
2. Be Prepared
Expect the unexpected. Bear in mind that everything is not under your control. So whatever happens, just keep going.
3. Be Alert
You are talking to a person whom you haven't met in person. So, be alert. Learn to analyze everything he would tell you. It is alright if you let him feel that you believe all what he is saying, but put this in your mind that you still don't know him.
4. Be Responsive
When you are talking to someone, you want them to pay attention on you, right? So, when you are talking to him, be responsive. You give your attention to your communications. No one would love the feeling of being ignored. Don't use your cellphone while talking and/or chatting online. You are giving the feeling that he does not interest you.
5. Be Yourself
I know that you wanna impress the guy, but avoid to pretend that you are somebody else. Introduce the true you. Of course, you know how to do it. But, DON'T EVER LIE! If you have bad habits, he will know that later on once you have started a good relationship. Anyways, everybody does have bad habits.
I am sharing this tips because I have been through this. I met my fiance in an online dating website. When I saw his profile, I sent him interest and he interest back. We dated online for almost 10 months. Now, we are together and soon to be getting married.
Do this simple tips and I am sure, you will meet the right person for you.
Good luck!
I think the choice really depends on the person. One part of me feels like I have to be the one to fish through emails and look at profiles and go on a dating website that I choose because no one knows me better than I do. But another part of me would prefer an expert to match me up with someone and possibly eliminate those people I will not connect with. Maybe someday I will try both to see which works better.
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